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I’ve struggled with overeating, binge eating, a negative body image, and a constant desire to lose weight for most of my life.
I’ve felt so ashamed of my problems, like a disgusting pig who can’t get it together and eat like a “normal” person. I’ve been saddened how my obsession with my body and food has [...]

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That darn can of raisins: a February binge

Overeating Help

What do you do when you’re stuck in a cycle of bingeing or overeating? When you’re knee deep in sugar or food and you can’t find your way out? These questions may be your story – where you find yourself today. These questions are where I find myself, too.
These questions arrived at my own [...]

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Weight loss movie to explore ‘gift’ of overeating

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Imagine problems with food as a valuable signal from your inner compass. Overeating binges (end overeating?) provide a powerful clue that your needs are not being met in positive, healthy ways. In that sense, addictive behaviors that we may rightly wish to rid ourselves of can in fact be a gift. A gift to ourselves [...]

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Teachers challenged to put themselves first

Joyful Living

Dive in and fully participate in the feast of life was my message to the Montana Montessori Education Association. For teachers who often act selflessly for the sake of their young charges, it’s not easy to strike a balance between giving and asserting their own needs. What might happen if these dedicated educators didn’t put [...]

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Get (almost) daily encouragement via email

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When you sign up for email updates, there’s a new option to choose “Daily Encouragement for Joyful Living”. This comes from feedback from readers and survey-takers who have asked for something more frequent via email. So far, I’m seeing lots of good comments on how this email delivers a jolt of good tidings or reflective [...]

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How to avoid holiday weight gain explained in Noble Mother interview

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Somehow holidays and special family times seem to revolve around sugar and overeating. How do you approach the holidays with joy and anticipation without the fear of extra pounds?
I still remember the first holiday season that I approached with relaxation and trust:  knowing that I wouldn’t be overeating in the coming weeks. I felt so [...]

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Support program for sugar addiction

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Here’s the “OK, but how?” answer to the thousands of you who have read Overcoming Sugar Addiction.
‘Sugar Addiction’ is a self-paced support program I’m releasing now to offer a way out to those stuck in a sugar binge cycle. Frustrated with what seem like overwhelming sugar cravings? Suspect you’re an addict? Thinking about going sugar-free [...]

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Margaret Cleveland co-hosts the First Ourselves Show

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For me, it began with a search for ‘overeating’ on google.com that led me to FirstOurselves.com.  It took me about one minute to figure out that finally, finally, I had landed in the place that could help me with tackle my issues with overeating and sugar addiction. And it took me less than a minute [...]

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Karly to host workshop on self-care for medical staff and residents

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Who better to heed the message of self-care than busy, committed medical residents, staff and doctors? I was delighted to spend this weekend in Indianapolis to support the women of IUPUI medical school and the emergency medicine department in their quest for greater life balance.
During the workshop, several women gained clarity on the unconscious “shoulds” [...]

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Karly speaking at Lululemon Body Image event in San Diego

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This week I was in La Jolla, enjoying the mid weather, the fresh, California food, and the charming downtown while I was there to speak for a body image event with Lululemon, the noted athletic company famous for its unique ads and yoga styled apparel, and the San Diego Jewish Center.
I shared my personal struggle [...]

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First Ourselves featured on Beliefnet

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Beliefnet, the world's premier internet portal on faith, inspiration and spirituality, featured First Ourselves
and Karly in an article about self-care. Writer Therese Borchard, who writes the Beyond Blue column, said she was "inspired" by Karly's message to love and care for yourself.

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Yahoo! homepage feature on ‘ideal body weight’ pulls over 1 million

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A First Ourselves’ article written for Yahoo!’s women’s magazine Shine was featured on the Yahoo! home page,  generating record setting traffic (over 1 million men and women read the article).  The article below, What is my ideal weight? 5 tips for finding your happy weight, turned into a lively discussion on what constitutes your “ideal” [...]

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A Sugar Free Valentine’s Day? Listen to Karly’s tips on the Livin’ La Vida Low Carb Show

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How do you celebrate holidays like Valentine's Day without diving into the sugar? How do you create intimacy, connection and love without the traditional gifts of flowers and chocolates? How do you create feelings of love without relying on food?

Karly will answer these questions and more when she appears on The Livin' La Vida Low [...]

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Hear Karly on the 100th Anniversary Show of What Really Matters

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What Really Matters, the popular podcast show that focuses on simplifying life, is celebrating its 100th show on October 22 with some of their favorite guests, including Karly Pitman of First Ourselves. Join Karly and The Sneaky Chef, Dr. Romance, HGTV organizer Jamie Novak and others as they offer tips on simplifying life and creating [...]

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Heal Your Life Radio Features Karly to Overcome Sugar Addiction

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Join Karly and host Rebekkah White of Heal Yourself Talk Radio this Wednesday, September 3rd, as Karly offers her pointers on kicking your sugar habit….for good.
Karly will share her personal struggles with overcoming sugar addiction and how she broke free from emotional sugar binging. She'll also offers tips and pointers for those on the [...]

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